â€œIn general, this is good advice, but some of the most necessary things in life are hard. I like eating french fries. I donâ€™t like exercise. I like dating whoever I want. I donâ€™t like being committed to just one at a time. I like play. I donâ€™t like work. I donâ€™t like brushing my teeth. I like sugar.â€
These are great points and answers point to the power of the enjoyment principle.
Letâ€™s take your points one at a time.
â€œsome of the most necessary things in life are hard.â€
They donâ€™t have to be. Letâ€™s go through your list and see how some â€œhardâ€ items can be eliminated.
â€œI like eating french fries.â€
So eat it. The problem you probably have is that itâ€™s not healthy. Iâ€™m not a health professional but french fries never killed anyone- in moderation. If you otherwise eat healthy a few fries shouldnâ€™t hurt you (confirm with your Dr.). But when you eat it make sure youâ€™re eating the best ones. Why waste empty calories and lots of fat on subpar food? Treat yourself to the best.
â€œI donâ€™t like exercise.â€
Welcome to the club- most people donâ€™t. Sara recently complained about the same thing. After discussion the solution was simple- donâ€™t exercise- watch TV. Do you like TV? So go to the gym and watch you favorite show as you run or do another exercise you like better. Last night Sara reported that she worked out for over an hour. I warned her not to overdo it as sheâ€™s just starting out. â€œI didnâ€™t feel it- I just wanted to finish watching my showâ€.
â€œI like dating whoever I want. I donâ€™t like being committed to just one at a time.â€
These can be worked out with thinking and honesty. Figure out what you want and what you donâ€™t want.
â€œI like play.â€
Have fun (when itâ€™s time to have fun). Now think about a way make money off this fun and then you can play and have fun at the same time.
â€œI donâ€™t like work.â€
Then quit. But before you do figure out what you do like. Put yourself in position to get that job (it may take time- but once you make it you wont work another day in your life). Before you make the leap look at your current job- are there ways you can make it more fun? Work on it.
I donâ€™t like brushing my teeth.
Do you like music? comedy CDs? Play something while brushing and you wont realize it.
;I like sugar.
So eat it. But see my suggestions about french fries above.
These are some ideas off the top of my head. If you apply your brainpower to this and add your knowledge of what you like/donâ€™t like youâ€™ll come up with even better ideas.