Control your destiny
October 31st 2008 12:00 am
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Ordinarily I don’t get into topics between the arms (heart) and stick to topics between the ears (brain). Lets face it, it’s easier (at least for me) to deal with something logical. If A then B- is simple. You can see results. But this time I want try and use the brain to control the heart.
There is one simple law to learn that will reduce stress: you can’t change others. Once you internalize this you can pick a strategy to overcome this stress and watch your productivity soar. You can choose to eliminate the stresser, change yourself or your perception.
You can (and should) control yourself, not others.
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Martin Wildam responded on 03 Nov 2008 at 8:12 am #
Or the more generalization: If YOU have a problem, YOU must solve it. Praying or hoping for help of others is a very inefficient way.
A general drive in improving myself (FYI: http://1-2-solved.blogspot.com/2007/09/about-this-blog.html )
Heshy responded on 04 Nov 2008 at 8:02 am #
Agreed. Reminds me of this quote:
“I find that the harder I work, the more luck I seem to have.”
— Thomas Jefferson